"To be really happy and really safe, one ought to have at least two or three hobbies, and they must all be real."
— Winston Churchill
When we were kids we played sports, did crafts, had spend the nights at friends houses- we were pretty busy. And now we have work, and work, maybe the gym, kids, significant others. But none of those things are really for us, are they? Sure they bring some happiness to our life, but its not the same as a selfish joyful distraction.
Read a book, knit a scarf, cook for fun, take some pictures, take a class- do something just for you!