Finding just the right fit- can be hard. It's fair to say that I have met a good amount of girls over the years. Most of them weren't/aren't interested in being more than.... non-friends.
I can easily recall the feeling when the "cool girls" in school thought I was terribly weird/ annoying/ un-cool.
It's slim pickings out there! However, I'm lucky enough to have a handful of awesome gals that mean the world to me. And even though I may annoy them, they still love me anyway. Success! I think the secret is to keep looking for the people that you can be 100% yourself with.