Sunday, January 30, 2011

Apparently, a must read I didn't know about: Erica Jung

"Denounce useless guilt. Don’t make a cult of suffering. Live in the now(or at least the soon). Always do the things you fear most. Courage is an acquired taste like caviar. Trust all joy. If the evil eye fixes you in its gaze, look elsewhere. Get ready to be 87." 


"Anger is really disappointed hope." 


"It was easy enough to kill yourself in a fit of despair. It was easy enough to play the martyr. It was harder to do nothing. To endure your life. To wait." 


"Jealousy is all the fun you think they had." 


"the body is wiser than its inhabitants. the body is the soul. the body is god’s messenger." 


"I have not ceased being fearful, but I have ceased to let fear control me." 


"Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it...it really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.


"Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it... It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more." 


"Women are their own worst enemies. And guilt is the main weapon of self-torture . . . Show me a woman who doesn't feel guilty and I'll show you a man." 


"My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live." 


"I have lived my life according to this principle: If I'm afraid of it, then I must do it." 


"The trick is not how much pain you feel--but how much joy you feel. Any idiot can feel pain. Life is full of excuses to feel pain, excuses not to live, excuses, excuses, excuses." 


"Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame." 


"Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more." 


"Everyone has talent. What's rare is the courage to follow it to the dark places where it leads."


"I have accepted fear as part of life – specifically the fear of change... I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back...." 


"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t."